It was one of those unexpected occurrences that change your life in ways that never occur to you. On November 5, 2023, just two days after this photo of my husband and I was taken, he had a massive stroke.
We are a blessed family. I say this with all sincerity because we were told to expect the worst outcome. Instead we are nearly six weeks from that scary day and today my husband Jim was standing up with the help of his physical therapist and walker.
Jim and I have not traveled this new story alone. First we have been surrounded and supported by our family. Our children and son in law have traveled to be with us and support their dad from the very first night. Jim’s brother has also traveled and stayed with us, teaching us how to ask questions and advocate for Jim. They all have put their lives on hold indefinitely.
Secondly, we have been loved, prayed for and supported by friends, family and coworkers. The outpouring of genuine care has been a blessing and has eased our anxiety and stress in many ways. Knowing our old dog is being well cared for, helping with living expenses in a city far from home, sending cards and care packages, texting and calling and most of all praying for Jim and for all of us.
Thirdly, all the knowledgeable and truly caring hospital staff. Jim’s Nuerologist saved his life, which he couldn’t have done if the doctor and staff at our local ER hadn’t done such a good job of stabilizing him. The nurses, nursing assistants, aids, physical, occupational and speech therapists and even the cleaning and kitchen staff have been so kind and caring.
And most importantly, we have relied on the Lord to give us strength and hope and healing. We have witnessed so many miracles large and small. God is good.
I am sharing this story at this time even though we are still in the beginning chapters for a couple of reasons. I wanted my dear readers of “The Bookery Place” to know why my posting has been once again non existent. The one kinda weird thing that has occurred is that I really haven’t been able to read much at all. My usual default in any situation, stressful or not, is to read. The more stressful, the more I read. Not this time. I thought that spending twelve hours a day at the hospital would give me plenty of time to read, but not really. I try, but inevitably, the book gets laid down. I do always have a book with me and I have managed to complete two and a half! 😁
We are all working hard and so hopeful that our continuing story will keep getting better chapter by chapter.
Beautiful! I am so glad you thought to ask me to take a photo of you two at the auction. I remembered it was on your phone and hoped it would be a nice surprise for you to look back and find. Love y’all. So wonderful to hear of Jim’s progress. God is good.